Jon & Kate + 8 – 1?
Posted on 5.21.09 at 9:14 pm
So what’s the deal folks? I heard rumors last week that Jon stepped out, but Kate seemed to be confident that the rumors weren’t true and optimistic that the marriage could withstand this rough patch. Then I heard another report last night that they’re splitting.
I have seen the show but I don’t watch it religiously (what? I know and I’m a reality tv junkie). So, I am by no means in a position to really comment about it. But, I’ve been hearing bits of info and I have so many conflicting thoughts about the situation.
First, I saw a clip where Jon said (and I’m paraphrasing here) – sometimes I just want to be Jon, not Jon and Kate plus eight. I could totally understand where he’s coming from. There are times that I just want to be Ny, not mommy or wifey, just Ny. And I’m pretty sure you guys can relate.
Then, on that same thought I assume he wanted to get married and wanted to have kids – mind you he may not have asked for eight kids, but he wanted kids. When you make a decision to have kids, then your priorities should change. You’ve got to put their well-beings ahead of yours. So, buddy these are ALL your kids (and there is no doubt about that – just look at them) so you’ve got to step up to the plate and be responsible.
Also related to that thought, where does he get off trying to leave this marriage and family and leave Kate with eight kids to raise on her own – that’s ludicrous!
On the opposite side, although I don’t watch the show every week, the times that I have seen it there is such little love between Jon and Kate. It’s so apparent in their body language and they way they talk to each other. It’s very, very noticeable in Kate. She speaks to him like he’s a child. There is no romance (but c’mon we know how that goes so neither of them gets dinged here) BUT there is no intimacy in the way they interact either. Have you ever seen them sitting on the couch together during the interviews? He always sits with his arm around her while she scoots over as far as she can to the other side of the couch (and it’s an really an oversized chair) and turns her body away from him. She acts like she’s really disgusted with and by him – acts like she doesn’t even want him around. So I look at this and it doesn’t come as a surprise that they may be separating. I’m not excusing his actions (so don’t beat me up) but I’m just not that surprised.
As you can see, my thoughts are all over the place on this one – but I do hope that they figure out a way to make sure that those kids are protected and happy. If that means sticking out or separating – whichever way they decide just as long as those kids are happy, that’s all that matters to me!
12.4.09 at 7:49 am
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